Disability is Not War. The Disabled are not Missing.

Autism Speaks is a highly successful and controversial autism awareness group. Here’s the critique from the feminist website “Tiger Beatdown” that made me aware of the problems first. I’ve tried to spread awareness of these issues ever since, but I often see celebrities, thinking they are helping, supporting Autism Speaks. To me, they are like … Continue ReadingDisability is Not War. The Disabled are not Missing.

On Being Offended: Washington Obscenities, Barilla, Klosterman, Cohen

Here’s my principle on language and offense: You do not get to decide whether I should be offended by something you do or say; you only get to decide whether you care. Here’s what I mean. Someone uses language I find offensive. I call them on it. They cannot decide for me whether it’s ok … Continue ReadingOn Being Offended: Washington Obscenities, Barilla, Klosterman, Cohen

Cult of Compliance: Was Andy Lopez killed for wearing headphones?

Imagine you are walking down the street listening to music. Police see something about you that they don’t like. They are behind you though and call on you to stop. You can’t hear them. What happens next? I’ve written cases in which Deaf people experience just this – the police feel disrespected and they react. … Continue ReadingCult of Compliance: Was Andy Lopez killed for wearing headphones?